Cassie learning words

Cassie is just now getting words that she uses all the time. Her favorite words are of course no, but she also uses "I got it." Everything is "I got it." When she is eating, if she wants more food, she gives me her plate and says more and when she is done, she says "all done" and gives me her plate. I love that she can say momma now but when we are in the car all she says is momma, momma, momma. She isn't even talking to me, she is looking out the window saying it. What is funny is that she doesn't say dada, she says didi. When Charles comes home from work, and tells her hi, she says "hi didi."
She loves to play with me. I am her favorite playmate. Her daycare says that she keeps to herself and I am like is this a bad thing, something that we need to work on? How do you work on that at home. She is around kids all the time, either at daycare, church or our friends that have a son a year younger than her. If she isn't sociable right now, count your blessings that she isn't screaming all the time or biting other kids. If she wants to play by herself, then just let her. When she wants to play with other kids she will. I just don't understand why they need to tell me that like ti is a bad thing.
So I am so excited to get to go to the TECH game this weekend. If they lose I swear I will never go to another game again. They beat Texas, the team that beat OSU so in a perfect world they should be able to beat OSU, but this is TECH. I just want them to win, i want this to be as just as good of a game as last week.
Cassie's birthday...last year I was a nervous wreak. Making sure that my father and Rudy didn't get near each other. I couldn't even enjoy it, I ate nothing and just wanted to cry the whole time. So I had this great idea that I would have two parties this year. A small one and my house with my mom, Rudy and Stephanie's family. Then another one at my inlaws with Charles' family and my dad. That way I could have a good time. Then I started thinking that it sounded like I was punishing my mom and Rudy. I am not, I just don't want to have to deal with what i had to last year. They didn't do anything to make me have a bad time, I just know that my dad does not like Rudy nor that my mom is remarried. When I brought this us to my mom about having two birthdays, I think she knew how I felt but I still think she felt like she was getting the short end of the stick. I don't want her to feel that way, but she is the reason that I have to do this. She is the one who wanted the divorce, not my father. I think she realizes that so she will just go with it. I am not unhappy that she married Rudy because I think he is wonderful for her and he is so good with Cassie but it is still hard, like when there are birthdays or holidays.
Well that was alot for a first blog. Hopefully I can keep this up because it was nice to get it all out.